tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9213295093044349591.post2132470984179278733..comments2023-06-29T08:51:27.319-05:00Comments on The Geurts': We Quit.Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05620558540086924845noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9213295093044349591.post-31476506544279087692013-02-17T20:45:01.106-06:002013-02-17T20:45:01.106-06:00I second what Auntie Donna and Uncle Tim said...I ...I second what Auntie Donna and Uncle Tim said...I was gonna say the same thing. Quit! Cause damn it you need to quit and when you are ready you can get back up and try again. Also...as much as I would love a normal blog about typical stuff...I so appreciate your truth and honesty. It helps me understand what you and others are going through. You are so amazing and the smiles on your children's faces say even though some of the yucky stuff is our life...they also sure are having a REALLY GOOD life with you and Adam.<br /> Love, LFAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9213295093044349591.post-27492557416590438522013-01-31T05:35:16.461-06:002013-01-31T05:35:16.461-06:00Little Stef don't beat yourself up for saying ...Little Stef don't beat yourself up for saying "I quit" or "Why so much pain and frustration for such a perfect little child". I will always remember Rebecca's calls and saying it is not fair, or I have had i, enough is enough. and my favorite phrase of hers is Mom you always say that "God only give us as much as we can handle" Well my handle if full and my cup overfloweth. I am so done with the insanity. All I can say is just imagine if Jayce & MaKiah did not have such amazing loving parents just think what they would have to endure. And always remember to "Quit" for the time being and know in your heart that you will pick up and fight the next day, hour and even minute. but you need time for you, the nap with Wil, the Calgon take me away tubby, the walk to the garage to yell, your " I QUIT" time. and that is good gives you a little release for the next hurdle weather it is good or bad.<br />Rebecca is going thru the same hurdle now and called me to vent MaKiah's 6 hr surgery only 1/2 worked and the ortho dr is not sure what to do so they do the famous "waiting game" and that is so frustrating as MaKiah is in pain and Rebecca knows that and lives it 24/7 so wants to push the dr but that does not work so she say.."I'm done had enough" and for that short period she is done and she has had enough and that is ok. she has checked out as the Mighty Mom roll and became the cuddle bug mom forgetting all the trials of the day for just that minute, hour or night and sits on the couch and cuddles with anything available to cuddle one of the kids, the dog, or even a blanket and a cup of hot chocolate. and that is OK. So you just "Quit" when you need to and when it is needed you will be the MOM/ADVOCATE that Jayce's and Will need, and Adam will be there for you as well, so remember you can cuddle with Adam and get away in your own little world if only for a minute.<br />I think and pray for you all each and every day.<br />All our Love Kiddo!<br />Auntie Donna and Uncle Tim <br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com